confessional

[topaz]

thanks to renniekins for starting this idea, and moominmolly for reminding me.

Do you have a secret? Something you've been wanting to get off your chest but have nobody to tell? Or something you couldn't imagine saying to anyone to their face?

It's time. Anonymous posting is on. IP logging is off. You have to post anonymously. (I will delete non-anonymous comments!) And you are not allowed to tell me what you posted -- that's part of what makes it fun!

Let's hear it, folks. And make it a good one!

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm married, and I only had sex twice in the last year. It's not a relationship issue, it's a lack of sex drive issue on the partner's part. It makes me sad, but looking for it elsewhere (with partner's consent, obviously) is not what I want. So we work on it. Here's to a new year and fixing what's broken in our lives...

[(Anonymous)]

I don't know you from Adam, Eve, or the serpent. I guess that's part of the point of this thread. But I want to say that sometimes a low sex drive is a symptom of depression. (Especially for someone who used to be more interested in sex.) I don't know your partner, so this might not be the situation, but it sometimes happens that a person gradually loses interest in a lot of things that used to be enjoyable...everything seems like too much trouble. Talking to a doctor about a therapist referral can help. Good luck.

[(Anonymous)]

I wish my partner was so understanding ... plus would just go off to a sex club already and leave me the hell alone!